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Thank you, Craig, for creating a forum where we can have these discussions!

The notion of the Frog needing to change its nature is compelling. (I've got the power to change myself, but changing the Scorpion is outside my scope.) The challenge this inevitably evokes is... how do I change my nature without destroying what makes me what I am?

This seems to be tied into the conundrum that our best characteristics can also be our worst. For example, one of the best characteristics of Western people, and one of our defining characteristics, is our strong sense of individualism. And yet, as you so aptly point out, our lack of collective cohesion, in terms of loyalty to our own kin, also seems to be our downfall.

I am by nature a fairly strong individualist. I don't know how far I can go in changing that - to do so would seem to nullify what I actually am. However, I am noticing that in my efforts to evolve as an individual, I have had a tendency in the past to slide into a kind of trap - you might call it a "white disloyalty trap." It goes something like this:

When I recognize something I don't like about the culture I come from, say materialism, I go around looking for a culture that *appears* to be less materialistic - to give me guidance, and possibly to find a place where I might feel I belong. I did this for a time with what is called "First Nations" culture in Canada, romanticizing a group of people I didn't know much about so that I could project what I wanted them to be, onto them as a group.

Not very respectful towards the group being romanticized... an ultimately a fool's errand on my part.

What I am attempting to do these days is to evolve as an individual, while still practising gratitude to my forebears for getting me this far. It helps enormously to have the insights of writing like yours. It might sound trite, but for the first time since I was a small child, I can honestly say I am really happy to have European roots.

If I don't know where to go from here at times, at least I can get inspiration from knowing that imagination has always fuelled the best of our culture. Thanks for helping me imagine where we need to take things with your posts.

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I found the story of what the young Jewish woman did to the Russian peasant woman really unnerving. The guilt she reports feeling on her way to the train station is so overwhelmingly outweighed by the level of planning and the very successful execution of her con. (She knew where to go, what kind of person to look for, and how to behave towards her to get what she wanted.)

It makes her wailing of "What could I do?" that much more pathetic.

The story is like a real life enactment of the Scorpion & Frog tale. The Jewish woman is utterly incapable of overcoming her own nature. It behooves those of us who couldn't imagine doing the same thing to beware.

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